Now, picking a song about this topic could’ve been easy and relatively current but I just didn’t have the stomach for Kate Perry. So instead, I’ve included a really good song by an artist who just so happens to prefer women. Melissa Etheridge “I Want to Come Over”
My Female Type? Hmmm, that’s an interesting question. And as with most things that interest me, I had to spend way too much time exploring it. I apologize if I offend anyone with my questions or scenarios but just as I make broad assumptions about straight guys, I make generalizations of women, straight and otherwise.
Let me first say that I am a heterosexual. Not a proud one or an apologetic one, just born that way. 🙂 My physical type of man varies but would probably be tall(er than me), slender to athletic w/ dark features. I’d like to feel he’d be able to physically “protect” me from whatever. (Although, I imagine it would be difficult for me to let anyone take care of me.) Personalities aside, there’s something about attraction of security.
With these attributes in mind, I wonder if I’d uphold the same standards for a woman. Would I be interested in someone who was essentially “a big, strong man” with different parts? Would I want to assume the typical “male/dominant” role in the relationship? Yes, I know these “roles” are strongly based on some archaic heterosexual culture constructions and may not always apply in same-gender relationships. But there still seems to be a dominant personality in any relationships, regardless of the gender, size, occupation, or the like.
Moving on the the physical, I have enough insecurities and issues related to comparing my body to other women. Would it be better or worse with a girlfriend? Would I want to be with someone traditionally prettier than me with bigger breasts and smaller thighs? Or would a less feminine woman catch my attention? Could I be jealous of the way my girlfriend looks? Sure, I could feel self-conscious around a really physical fit or Adonis-like man but I couldn’t exactly strive to look like him so it wouldn’t be as bad, I imagine. I know, as with straight couples, the initial attraction is fleeting because it’s all about the chemistry. Blah, blah, blah. But I’m more intrigued by what would attract me in the first place.
I have no answers for these questions. I was just asked and thought I’d explore here. I think the fact that I’m not in the least bit attracted to women and so easily distracted by fine male specimens makes it difficult to dive any deeper. Women are beautiful and deserve to be cherished. I’m just not the one to do it.
Angelina or Brad? Angelina’s gorgeous but it’ll have to be Brad all the way….
Jo’van
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