Shades of Understanding: Finally a Black Disney Princess

A clip of the song “Almost There” from Disney’s “The Princess and the Frog”

Over the Christmas holidays, I took my mother and grandmother to go see Disney’s “The Princess and the Frog”.  Three generations of black women sat in a movie theater in the middle of the day on a Wednesday to somewhat celebrate Disney’s first black Disney princess.

I won’t give the movie away but it IS a Disney movie afterall.  There’s a sweet, smart young woman facing hardships that can only be righted with hard work, magic, music and a man she hates only to eventually love.

Now when the buzz about the movie began  a few months ago, I heard critics praise Disney’s move to finally include African-Americans in their special princess clique and others berate Disney for having the first and only black princess only be a human for 1/4 of the movie.  (You see Tiana turns into a frog when she kisses the cursed prince…)

You know, I get it.  I see both points and why people would be so upset.  What other princess is an animal the vast majority of the movie?  The closest I can think of is Ariel in The Little Mermaid.  But at least she was human-like  from the waist up.  Is this unfair?  Maybe.  Would I prefer to see Tiana as the beautiful human rather than the adorable frog?  Maybe.  But do I (want to) believe Disney was being racist?  No, not really.

Of the nine “Disney Princesses“, four of them were already princesses.  The other five were peasants, poor, lower class beauties who strived for equality and success and became princesses.  Tiana is one of these five.  Would it’ve been nice to avoid some of the stereotypes?  Sure.  Were the accents and assumptions of lower education all that necessary?  Probably not.  But the fact that Tiana is a poor, black, and from New Orleans isn’t such a bad or surprising thing.  Disney (and most entertainment companies) play on stereotypes.  While the heroine was poor and black, her rich, spoiled friend was a little round, blond and always in pink.  The prince was beautiful and immature.  The villain was thin and dark (in fact he looked very much like The Lion King’s Scar).  Her friends were bumbling and sweet, parents supportive and wise.  And most importantly, Tiana’s success was based (mostly) on her determination, intelligence and big heart.

Growing up, my mother made a conscious effort to surround me with dolls who looked like myself.  Why get me a blond Barbie?  Beauty was defined as blond, blue-eyed and pale everywhere outside of my home, even on the television and books within it.  Why force her daughter to stare at and idolize something she’ll never be?  Was giving me all black dolls a little extreme?  Yeah, maybe.  But you know what?  I grew up thinking Christie was just a pretty as Barbie.  Barbie just had better outfits.  Plus, my grandmother and stepmother added a little diversity to my dolls with Barbies (blond), Midges (red head), Teresas (brunette/Hispanic), Skippers (blond little sister) and Kens (blond boyfriend).  And you know, Christie didn’t even need Ken.  She had Steven.  I played with them all.  Barbies, Cabbage Patch dolls, average baby dolls.  If I’d had more/any asian dolls, my trunk would’ve looked like Brangelina’s brood.

Conclusion:  If I were 7 (shoot, maybe even at 25), I’d want a Tiana Barbie.  She was pretty, smart, brave and successful.  And it’s finally nice to have a Disney princess who looks like me.  And you know what else?  After Pocahontas, Tiana’s the 2nd American princess.  Fancy that!

Contemplating asking for my first Barbie in 15 years,

Jo’van

Quarterlife Crisis: Crisis Resolution(s)

Sting featuring Stevie Wonder “Brand New Day”

The streets have been cleared.  The bottles of cheap champagne and plastic cups disposed of.  Friends are either icing down the painful first day of “I’m going to workout” resolutions or still recovering from the “I don’t remember any of the new photos posted on Facebook” antics of last night.  Yes, it’s New Year’s Day!

Traditionally, only the first second to hour of this day are really important.  We spend a lot of energy getting ready for the Eve.  Parties, new party dresses under heavy winter coats, vague resolutions and sometimes desperate searches for someone ideal (or ideal enough at 11:55) to kiss at midnight.  All (well, at least most) faults of the prior year are forgiven.  It’ll be 2010 soon.  I’ll/You’ll/The world’ll do better beginning January 1st.  Despite specific feelings around New Year’s resolutions, everyone hopes the next year will be a good year, if not, a better one than last year.  And with the economic downturn of ’08 and ’09, I know there are high hopes for a plateau, if not a steady climb out of this mess we’ve created for ourselves.  But finances aside, what are you hoping 2010 will look like?

Of course, we’re all supposed to and I’m sure on some level do hope and/or pray for things like world peace, lower carbon footprints, higher literacy rates, greater human rights, saving the manatees and other such noble goals.  But when you narrow it down to what’s both really important and really feasible in your world, what do you come up with?

In the past, I’ve pledged to do things like get in shape, be on time, call family and friends more often, actually save money (and keep it saved), and whatever other simple things I know I should be doing anyway.  Despite the year I made that particular resolution, I still need to do all of those things.  But I want something new for 2010.  It’d be great to make all of those things real.  But I want something very specific and new for this new year.

In the grand scheme of things, last year was just a little rocky.  But in eyes of a 25-year-old, 2009 was scary and exciting.  God tested and delivered me.  Despite being laid off, depleting my savings, my dog attacking someone, losing my wife, being (somewhat painfully) reminded why I prefer to stay single, and whatever other shitty things that happened, as of 12/31/09, I was in good shape.  I have a new job I (actually) enjoy, friends I’m blessed to be able to call on, family who has no choice but to love me :-), my weekends free for the first time in 3 1/2 years, a prospect of a real relationship, good health, steady income and the ability, the mindset and, hopefully, the heart to only strengthen all of these things.

Ever the pessimist/realist, I resolve to be happy in 2010.  Of course, I won’t be able to completely stop plotting and planning for the worst.  In fact, I hope I never do.  But what I do need to work on is accepting the good just for the sake of it being good.  Good things happen to me.  I need to start enjoying them.

I received some great advice at the airport on my way home for the holidays.  The lady checking IDs at the security checkpoint looked at my smiling ID photo (actually a really good picture) and said, “Smile more often.  It’s a good look.”  Thank you, ma’am.  I fully intend to.

Actually looking forward to what 2010 has in store,

Jo’van

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